They are both helping me to keep my memories - but not the paper, photos, things, etc.
I have lots of paper (thanks to my mother) dealing with the geneology of our family. Great stuff. I want to retain and use the information - but not the paper. That's where Neat and Evernote come in. I scan the papers into Neat and then send them to Evernote. In Evernote I organize them into a Notebook called Genealogy. Then I recycle the paper.
This solves my hateful relationship with paper.
What systems have you discovered to allow you to love something you once really hated?